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Sometimes I give the advice “flirt” or “show premise” to students. And for many students, that is enough, but for some, they need to know HOW to flirt. The easiest is to use some “canned” flirting lines at first and get the hang of it, but eventually you’ll need to come up with your own… this video is ONE (not the only) very easy method to do so. Enjoy!
So if I were doing Todd’s nerdy gamer approach:
Statement: this gaming convention is pretty cool.
Tease: you guys have to leave, these tables are only for gamers.
Flirt: if you guys don’t main FF XIV, we aren’t going to get along.
This sounds extremely easy to do and you explained it very clear.
I'm definitely going to try this.
סרטון מדהים !!! תמשיך ככה
כיף לראות שיש עוד אנשים בתחום הזה בעולם. גם אני מאמן דייטינג בישראל ונתת לי השראה להמשיך :)))
This is what i love about Todd , explaining key concepts with the minimum amount of bluff and in a short time. One day Todd ill take one of your bootcamps.
if it's positive about the relationship is it still a flirt?
Eg: "Oh that was a risky thing to say, yeah we're gonna get along"… Is that a flirt?
I just saw that video of you flirting the “right way” on the Reddit sub Cringetopia. Well done.
Sir… I have subscribed.
He has broken the code
I watched this 9 times . Where was this info all my life ?!
Man I am a mathematician and I need definitions. This is extremely useful. Thank you.
wow thanks Todd thats gold
so many days lost because I didn't knew this. I'm putting this into practice tonight
Damn bro you are a class! Awesome vid
The best way to flirt is to make women know you have money!
This Just Leveled Me Up
I hereby promise to make daddy Todd proud and start approaching a lot of women and having a lot of sex, I’m ready. Todd, thank you for creating the triple threat I now am, salute.
I just struck GOLD
Dude this was really well explained, never seen anything like this thank you!
Todd is in the same class as James Tusk.
Pls russian translate pls pls pls
Goddamn bro
These facts are POWERFULL
Brilliant break down!
Great content, but am I the only person that sees a guy with a coke and alcohol problem..? Maybe I'm crazy…
Golden! i will practise this everyday! amazing!
So cool, I been using without realizing them
1:26 1:32 4:37
Lovin the Kinky music
Can you analyze game from the original Colombian version of Betty La Fea?
Considering you’re a Spanish speaker and all.
Hey man! You share enough value to earn my purchasing your latest training. Please, just let me know whether you can offer a bit of a discount on it and I'll be on it. Thanks again
You just made it more confusing
Man, you explain this shit so well. Thanks.
Get a real job todd
That's amazing now I understand.
genius!
the way you break down such complexity into easy steps is just pure genius and elegance todd
Amazing! Todd, you make things so clear and simple. You're a great teacher!
I tried this via text flirting. Question-Statement – Tease-Flirt
I asked what she was drinking at Christmas – question
Champagne. – her statement
Yes you mentioned your family are rich, definitely are getting you champagne! – tease
Haha I don't usually drink champagne not that rich – response to tease
Shame I hoped we could sip champagne while watching a movie together – flirt
She found it funny. Building from a question to a flirt is possible!
This dude sounds so mechanical…please…this guy has no grasp on reality
Awesome stuff
Im sick of guys named Todd!
Absolutely brilliant! Other coaches dont teach this!
You didnt make a specific example. Would be cool if you did. Einstein said something like this. Making an example is the only way of teaching. Not only A way. But i guess. "That" is such a ridiculous thing to say is a fine example…
Love your work bud 🙂
Good man
Thx for the vid!
Question:
How to deal with situation when you try to tease the girl a bit, but she is not laughing and is too closed (trying to be serious)?
Explanation about why this works : Everyone grows up seeking their parents validation. Validation is crucial to our survival at young age. Most girls are seeking validation their whole lives. But most guys give away their validation too quickly. They approve and like everything the girl says and does. By commenting about the relationship between you two, you are implying that you are still considering the relationship. Therefore, you are not giving your validation right away, and the girl chases.
A true alpha male has a clear idea about who he is and what he wants, also what kind of people he allows in his life. So the alpha male is constantly evaluating the girl and the relationship, trying to figure out if she is a right fit.
Even the naturals you see with tattoos working as bartenders, they tease the girls hard, comment about the relationship and make the girls chase their validation.
I think this comes to listening really good and using intelligent play with words ( using metaphors in flirting is really exciting and can be really sexy)
Its just disgusting to try doing stuff mechanically
0:54
I love this Video!
Ive never heard these terms defined like this…that was cool lol
Todd, you used to make videos where you showed exactly how you moved around girls, "being in action" now it's a lot of words, please go back to the old videos where you showed how to hit on girls, or pick up girls on the street!.. tnx
Why does things need to be so difficult, ambiguous?
God of social communication
Great, loving this channel. I'm struggling with the whole flirting thing but it is making more sense now.
Like, "it ain't gonna stick itself" am I right?
I don’t believe in god but if I did I’d say your going to heaven for sure
Teasing man to woman vice versa is flirting.
Flirt Ortiz
Thank you for everything Todd
3:55 impersonal statement, and if it’s received well, then make it a personal statement and if that’s received well, then up to the flirtation interpersonal statement like we won’t get along because you’re strange and say that in a playful teasing way. 4:30 a tease about the person, and a flirt is about the relationship
this formula he gave for escalating the interaction from making a statement to making a tease to making a flirt with very low risk is life changing for me because I live in a small town and every interaction feels like a risk. this is the secret i've been looking for for years
I love Todd's little jumps while he speaks. Not sure why´, but makes the intro more dynamic. Curious how that works.
The art of easing women into receiving our love ❤️
Are the negative flirts the best way to go? Not all girls I flirt with have great flirting skills are have English as their first language. What are some positive flirts?
OMG for the first time ever, this shit actually makes some kinda sense. Thank you Todd!!
Top notch vid
This video is similar to the Fractionation vid. I wonder how many more examples can be give to make the encounter man to woman. I like.❤
This is shit is just too complicated.
Gold
Giving this another run. Gotta get back to where I once was.
This is incredible. Thank you thank you thank you Todd for making these formerly esoteric and ambiguous topics make sense to the logical mind.
Ngl. I was getting to the point where I was giving up on life. Your vids give me hope
There is this hot girl at the gym…but she looks upset all the time….like she is angry at everyone….i want to talk to her but dont understand how….she either has no social life and love life….or she was dumped….what do you guys think i should do to get her into casually dating me?
This was the best video I've seen on all dating related clips on YouTube and it's also the shortest (!) So mathematical
i can’t believe i was watching musical critic playing harp for the first time in his life for 15 minutes straight
This makes things so much easier.
Thanks
Sheesh this guy is way better than I hear all the haters talk about.
First there was Neal Strauss then came Todd <3
Outstanding video!! Super clear, and super helpful. Easy to put into practice right away!!!
Spectacular information. Embarrassed to say I'm 40 and never understood this. Better late than never, right?
Ok this is actually pretty impressive!!
Time to start rizzin’
The idea of keeping things light and fun while flirting is spot on. It takes the pressure off and makes interactions way more enjoyable.
stattement
teasing- statement about specific person
flirt- startement about you and her
Todd is always into something bro