In this video, I go over how to start confidently flirting with women!
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One thing I’ve always noticed that works well in a party/bar scenario is to end the initial conversation after a few minutes of talking and then follow up later
Soooo detailed ❤❤❤
Forget it, boys.
Get labeled as a creep, pervert, chauvinist, stalker, etc. and kiss your future goodbye.
Not. Worth. It.
I am not a fun person. If girls want someone fun then I guess I will be alone forever.
I'm older… I'll have to look up what a "Simp" is. IF I have it, do I need a shot of amoxicillin? 🙂
As a introvert I will find it very difficult to initiate contact and make the first move. As communication is not my strong point, my flirting will not be great either. Online chats would be better for me. But I find it very difficult to get a girl to agree to meet for a coffee date, even online.
The issue here is women have too many options, they chose the 1%. They are interested in bodycount.
I don’t know. I’m not one to be nervous when interacting with people. In fact I don’t mind talking to anyone. I’ll do it. But what I lack is the creativity in flirting and using humor or even asking questions in general. I just don’t know what to say. The questions I end up saying sound boring and simple. I don’t understand how to get more out of others. And I suck at delivering funny jokes. And flirting, I just don’t understand how it’s done. I still don’t get it after this video.
How can flirting ever be fun? No matter the efforts you make, it’s like showing up to an exam that you’ve studied for sooooo much yet knowing it will never be enough because it’s full of trick questions and above all you’re proud of being able at doing simple decimal additions during a physics PHD degree audit
Don't even try. Only Chad, Tryone, and Enrique may approach the "modern" western woman. Courtney if you are so enlighted and empowered, tell women how to apporoach and flirt with MEN. You gals used to know HOW to do so. Maybe you still do . . . for Chad, Enrique, and Tyrone. But of course, ALL other men are literally invisible to you.
So instead, you preach to beta men, giving them USELESS advice that will only damage their self-esteem even MORE than the daily rejection and avoidance they already get.
Rejection hurts. Time for women to experience it EVERY DAY . . . for several years. At least men don't go on TikTok and cry about the supermodel that wouldn't give them the time of day. Of course not. It's called "shopping out of your price range," and it's pretty much all Western women know how to do.
"Advances." "Flirting," or "Approaches" by the 85% of men that women rate as "below average," are simply NOT wanted or welcome, and will be met with a disdainful look and comment.
Gents, DON'T BOTHER. You are wasting your time and emotional energy. If a women is interested in YOU . . . she will let you know. Have any of them done so lately? Bueller? Bueller? Nope? Count the number of women that have approached or flirted with YOU in the last YEAR. That's the number of women YOU should approach or flirt with.
Oh, it's ZERO? Exactly.
If you need to hear this commonsense God bless.
I made great eye contact and teased, but because 8:45 humor & compliments were lacking, the conversation was serious, it didn‘t work out. Next time then.
Ugh the access that people have to others especially from through girls' side makes every interaction so touchy. However I agree trying to be as true to yourself is the best way- simping isn't it.
Great video, You make it so sound easy for us to master the art of Flirting. Like most everything, Practice makes Perfect!
Practice, Practice, Practice!
I don't flirt, she is ready for sex, lol. She knows this guy for six weeks, ready for sex. "the creepy one".
Ugh! "The one women love the most – humor/teasing" … and that's why I'm screwed.
I'm not comfortable at all with teasing strangers I've just met, and I really need a solid comfort level with people before I can let that humor side out at all, even just with friend-type relationships.
You're like Mary Poppings for grown ups. Thanks for the amazing content you make.
I have ridiculously high expectations for a girlfriend but I’m talking to a girl who meets all the expectations and taking her out this week, I’ve never felt this way about a female since middle school, playing it cool tho lmaoo
The best advice I’ve ever heard is adopting the mindset of “flirting with the world”. If you can be charismatic in as many settings as possible, you won’t have to turn it on – you’ll always be on!
I like talking to women but the husband arrives in the picture so I just say hi how are you and I leave
My recommandation: get used to talk to as many strangers as possible (men and women) even if you're not interested. A lot of practice will help when you finally talk to people you're interested in. Take the habit to talk to some strangers every day while trying to be funny and kind.
Easy breezy, just show her that thick long hard…
Wallet
From my experience, even trying out all of these tips & tricks doesn’t guarantee that a man won’t end up being friendzoned. Humour/playfulness/teasing can also be seen as a mere friendly gestures by a woman. I have come to believe that there’s more to eye contact, smile, & physical touch – the way it is done – which helps to convey sexual attraction/true intention clearly. It would help if you can delve deeply into the right & flirty way to make eye contact, smile, and touch.
Greatly accurate, insightful and pretty well communicated. Thanks a lot Cristine, amazing, logical and very articulated content. Not to say how beautiful you are ✨
I gave her a compliment like she has a talent for art because she makes her homemade pies.
You always look so nice in your videos you always take your time to make yourself look nice
Idk what rabbit hole of YT I’m on but, GUYS GUYS GUYS all the advise you need is this…
2 shots of Whiskey 30 minutes before the date. You’ll be present, funny, and flirty.
Good luck Kings
Since I’m older and newly single, I do notice it’s rare that I smile. I was practicing some smiles in the mirror which I’ve never done and I wanted to call the cops on myself. I think I’m doomed to never date, but that’s ok cause I have two wonderful girls that I will love for the rest of my life.
Flash your cash, have a nice car, have the latest fashions to show her you can buy her things, and say i trust you no prenup is required. Lol. The best stuff she says is good hygeine though. Wash your ass people.
Amazing tips! Too bad that they seem to be catered towards being
good lookingand notsocially awkwardor even autistic and robotic as hell, it's like this is just for people that function normally.The act natural advice is a real banger for real. There was a few girls i knew when i was younger who were very beautiful, and i just assumed out of my league, for all intents and purposes they were. Thing is it made me not give a damn about how i was around them, i was natural, even though nothing ever happened w them i realized later on it could have, it might not have gone anywhere, but if i tried something could have. Also trying to be to sexual to fast while trying to flirt hardly ever works. If shes kind of a "guy" girl and fucks w u back in a playful way, well thats just it, she had a lot of brothers or something and can hang, but trust me she dont want none.
What a waste of time this video was. There is nothing about flirting here. Flirting is humour, banter, light touching. She didn’t give a single example of how to do it. This video should be titled ‘how to talk to new people’.
I like to flirt But as a male do not want to in t intimate anyone whatsoever. AS A MALE I DO NOT want to hurt anyone!!!.
Gawd, these Youtubers just full of shit, aren't they.
1) How can you smile with tour eyes?
2) What is a genuine compliment?
3) How to tease?
– pls give 3 or 4 exaples of the above mentioned, so that I can understand.
yeah cringe puas im fed up of them!!! always ask a woman what woman wants i ve been listening courtney and marni to be frank !!!what i have known is women are emotional they will fight for u stand by u only if u r a genuine person who can understand her irrespective of her profession and yours!!!
aight, after watching this on 2x speed I am now a pro. Will report in tomorrow 😀
Just stay away from Tik Tok
I am 27 and the idea of flirting is just so scary that i committed to living and dying alone
She says she loves when im a simp for her but i know that too much simping is bad. Im confused if i should keep simping like crazy cuz she told me she likes that or not simp??
My go to move is i see a girl at a bar drinking and i go behind her and say i can get us a bottle
Do you have a vid on banter? When I’m chatting I kind of just stumble into doing it having no idea how it works. Would be nice to get a 101 on the topic…
I don't know yet how erect the giving of your adice will reach further. Though of sorrow wanting to too go back among things to note advise, advice though so far good or not am very high & thankful,
thanks!
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Thank you
You are always so sexy and love your choice of outfit!
I like the way you say "I'm Courtney Ryan" at the start of your videos.
There were a total so far 14 women in my life and they had one thing in common. They had no brain tissue at all. ! I live like a king as a single chap right now. I don’t need women at all.
U have to be classy
Eye contact during sex is hot lol
Builds energy and connection
I see guys mirroring guys sometimes lol
Courtney, your videos are always so intelligent, wise and practical: you've helped me immensely. You're like the sister or the gal pal I never had, who patiently guides me through the dangerous obstacle course that is trying to interact with women romantically.
is the bg music from these guys? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UB-BXi7i98I
Do not do any of these unless you look like a handsome movie star. You'll be labeled a creep, probably get fired from your job and maybe even arrested.
Your butt looks so juicy is a compliment?
put all women in the friend zone from the get go! and watch the results. No string attach, cero pressure, cero anxiety.
As a 35yr old who is only attracted to women 10-15 years younger than i am, i feel like its hopeless. They all seem to never be interested in me as soon as they find out my age. I cant date women my own age as they are all vastly more experienced than i am with my 0 dating history. I need to find someone who hasnt been around the block. Someone who hasnt dated many people just like me
So you gotta talk to women and look at women thats impossible
im so confused…What makes you an expert?
the amount of weak men in the comments…
Be jacked, and have money. Otherwise, you have no chance with ANY woman.
flint fert? no. if I listen she is wet.
Black o we track you. simple but sex. The one I love the most-I am angry, track you.
How does a woman calm me?
she comes infit and ready, what?
Fliert no, shut up. I know sex. I know women.
she farttss in the bathroom. let it go. I smell.
very good. Can you shut up? sex.
find your man.
Keep it up, Courtney. You're doing great!
Thank you, Courtney.
I find it hard to flirt with someone I care about, but easier to flirt with a complete stranger.
This is the key, confidence is everything that makes your flirt look sexy and you interesting. No confidence and she will have no confidence in you either, no matter how much you try to flirt you are becoming Tom Cruise levels of creepy
Don't want to be too forward or too subtle.
By definition, flirting is a way to show interest.
Flirting should be fun.
1. Show up for yourself
-Make a good first impression
-Dress well, groom well, hygiene
2. Go for natural approach
-use your surroundings to inspiring conversation
-THEN if going well, introduce yourself
-be able to read and see if she's flirting back
3. Make eye contact
-look away regularly
-be playful with eye contact
-don't stare/stalk
-if she smiles, it's a good sign
4. SMILE
-look warm and approachable
-playful looks and smirks
5. Mirror her movement
-see if she mirrors yours too
6. Be a good listener
-can't flirt if you don't listen
-keeps the conversation going
-ask open ended questions
7. Give a compliment
-genuine, honest
-I had to come over and tell you I like your style
-nothing about her physical attributes
-no pick up lines
8. Humor and Teasing
-puts her at ease
-be playful when appropriate (read the room)
-inside jokes really work well
9. Don't be a SIMP
-you just met, no need to put her on a pedestal
-know when to walk away when it's going nowhere
All of the Room reading is the problem. lol! I'm NOT very good picking up on things that aren't stated. To me, it's like I'm assuming I know what someone is thinking.
Clint Eastwood lost a girl friend.
When you come to Albania? I wanna buy you dinner?
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Damn I am obsessed with your voice
Forget about her, I'm in love with Courtney. perfection top and bodily
Any positive comment about a ladies hair or adjustments to hair style goes a long way. Its all about the hair:)
Why does she sound like Marni?
Flirting tip: Be Henry Cavill.
You're not him?
Then it's Netflix.
I mean, seriously. That's how it works.
What's is as rare as it gets, is people that don't fear loss & willing to be themselves, they are either received or not.
They give a shit by being the person, personality they really are not acting in any moment & don't give a shit who receives them or not, so hence the latter are free & don't indulge or people please what's not really them.
Fuck flirting, just be yourself, if you desire someone, or showing who you are & just letting your natural soul come out, that will come out natural.
Flirting can be creepy, soulless & unnatural, if it's coming from manipulation, control & with an agenda, or desperation, more mind games & witchery.
Imagine if two people, whether a short time one dayer or nighter, relationships, to even right through to who those are bound by law in marriage, if they ALL could both be real, hello you would connect & not be strangers to each other.
I'm fall love with you 🙂
I love how you emphasize the importance of body language and genuine connection. Flirting should be fun, not stressful, and your advice really helps with that!
thank you
You can forget about these 9 ways if you have a fat wallet like Elon
It's been 7th day without shower.
That's a magical number
Wonderful video My partnership of five years ended a month ago. When my true love decided to part ways with me, it truly is the only thing on my mind. I can't fathom my life with anyone else, and even though I've tried everything to get him back, it's all in vain. Despite my best efforts to put him out of my thoughts, I can't help but miss him and think about him all the time. I could not really tell you why I am saying this.
I walk by this woman, she " em him":