Are you feeling frustrated that you don’t know how to flirt? If so, you’re at the right place. Learning how to flirt can help you feel better about yourself, improve your mental health because you don’t get crushed as hard, and make the people around you enjoy your company more. If you have a hard time, learning how to flirt, then this video will surely help you. We will be covering 3 scientific approaches that absolutely work… with the right encounters.
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References
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Grainger, C. (2022, March 21). How to Flirt, According to the Experts. Brides. https://www.brides.com/how-to-flirt-according-to-experts-5184659#citation-1
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Weber, K., Goodboy, A. K., & Cayanus, J. L. (2010). Flirting Competence: An Experimental Study on Appropriate and Effective Opening Lines. Communication Research Reports. doi.org/10.1080/08824091003738149
love the videos! keep up the great work
Ok… I am an Asperger's. I'm gay, non-binary and I like two guys who are "allegedly" straight. One of them had an intercourse with me after I mentored him for one year and a half. The other one is one of my work colleague. I can't tell if he's into me or whatever. We bonded really fast and we started mimic eachother. We do good conversations and something doesn't click. I can't tell if I'm into him (and have a distorted vision) or he's into me but don't want to expose.
He's giving me gifts, love to talk to me (even about personal issues), and we go to lunch together.
I'm so con-fused.
dont know why im watching this maybe a like animation
I already told her i liked her and she said she doesn't know how she feels… We are still talking everyday and she said that it wasn't a no or a yes… So i still have A chance, how do i get her to like me as much as i like her
I never had a crush tho I'm flirting with my friends on a daily basis but damn, getting rid of all the "hey, do you have a name, or can I just call you 'mine'?" type of pick up lines are going to lighten the atmosphere !
Me as an aromantic taking fervent notes knowing I will never use them: mm yes interesting
ReSPECT
kind of off topic from the video but you're voice is really soothing 🙂
I don’t know why Im watching this. Im in a relationship and my gf has said that she thinks my flirting is really good. Why am I here? I guess I just like watching psych2go
This is garbage. I did everything right according to this video and the rejections I (always) get result in being told I'm the ugliest person alive or to go off myself. Once you actually produce normal content people won't consider you pseudo-science.
I genuinely don’t understand flirting. I’m 18 and have never had any intimate relationship experience in any sense of the word. Never asked a girl out or ever held a hand, heck, hug, etc. Can someone just explain it?
Using a Lifeline IRL
I watch videos like this all the time in hopes it will help. But I'm an incell, cause when ya ugly. Ya just ugly. Wheres are our self-help videos? We don't talk about it but seriously people like me who are visually less attractive than the average stand no chance and have to cope somehow. I could be a perv to everyone in the hopes someone else eventually takes the bait or learn to accept that I'm simply just ugly and learn to live a life of solitude. Or do the trendy thing and raise the suicide rates. Send Help.
Get it, Psy!
Its relieving to me to know that pick up lines and jokes are ineffective when flirting with someone.
1:15 i have none of these character traits
One of my classmates used the Tennessee line on me before this video released. He used it as a joke.
Guys umm…. Ima need more help cuz my crush…….. Is my friend and like we are always hanging out but we re FRIENDSSS
“Charisma is not something learned, nor is something obtained. You just have to be lucky to have it. It is a gift, cherish it.” -me
found another channel that's been reposting your content! https://www.youtube.com/@PhilPeter250
"me, you, sex"
I want to be as good as Craig Ferguson. That man could flirt so effortlessly.
Love your content and videos for self improvement. I don't know about flirting really as I still couldn't figure it out completely but the direct and gentle approach is best way to start a conversation from my experience. It can go right or wrong but the confidence to speak up to someone you like or want to interact with is a boost to your self improvement, especially for introverts and ambiverts. Psych2Go is really doing a good job by helping people figure some of these difficult topics in life.
The fact that i already did all of this and didn't work, is the scientific proof that the problem is me, not what i do
Rizz
Bruh the intro is what im going thru rn
“Just be you”? That’s horrible advice for me. I’m quiet and avoid people when possible.
can u make a video on how to make someone like you after they rejected you
I’m able to wiggle my ears so whenever I see my crush, I make my ears go back
1. Be handsome
2. Be beautiful
wtf… my crush is flirting with me?
So I basically watched this video In hopes of being able to make my girlfriend feel more special, but still flirting with her, because I don't k ow how I got it right in the first place.
Wish i had known this tips before, but regardless, loved the video
Instructions unclear, we are now exchanging slow blinks like cats
I'm pretty sure I overheard my crush saying to her friend that she has a crush on this one guy in our band class. She and him are hanging out a lot now, but whenever I send her smth, she has this lively response. Idk if she is just being nice or what. I think I might be winning her over.
I'm sorry but number 3 is just wrong. All anyone does if you try to get them to help you is tell you how pathetic it is that you need their help for something so simple in their eyes. I have never had a positive experience asking a friend for help with things like this. The first 2 are reasonable but do not ask your friends to do things for you they are more likely to sabotage your chances than anything.
We'll teach you to be more confident, step 1: PROCEED WITH CAUTION!
Yo some pvp advise to fight competition 🙂
Hello! I’m starting to talk to my crush but the thing is I don’t know what’s a more gentle type of approach to the relationship, what kinds of things should I be saying?
The jokes and the pickup lines are me. But I say to pick up lines like a joke
#1 rule: be hot or ur a creep
pov: you're the awkward competition watching this video
What a creepy female voice like a male 13 year old with a hormone change and she also uses cartoons why are these women so weird and creepy? Their men are even more creepy.
The skanks voice is so weird and creepy what a weird creepy woman
N.
so i walk up to this girl, in introduce myself to her, what's next?
My favorite pick up line is “you know god wanted to show off when making you”
As someone with no crushes this is very useful
As a guy who’s always wanted to be in a long lasting relationship with a woman (sadly still single at 22) I’ve always been too nervous to directly ask a girl out. Personally, it’s easier online and or in a online game, than irl… for the one reason, I have no irl friends or anyone to even converse with… but I’m the guy who will always be respectful, kind, loving, caring, extremely empathetic (I will cry if a close friend is crying, and all I want to do is give them a comforting hug) and loyal. Another difficulty is finding a girl that is appealing to me, and my morals. The most important thing to me is that she’s a kind, Christian girl, who shares my views on emotions and interactions.
Thanks!
watching this in rehab (literally)
im xy so im watching
I can't even remember what I did when I first flirted with my gf but the tie signs definitely sound familiar. But now I do use caution seeing as how we have the same friend circle.
Me: not being interested in dating and not having crushes (max on anime guys)
Also me: this is a great advice for the future
Yeah ladies pick up the slack
I’m already doing this to the t damn I’m good
Man this is the most adorable video I've ever seen, but I'm afraid of following each step to closely if I ONLY use this video lol
This whole video is wrong!!!!!!! flirting has nothing to do with being "safe" or "gentle"women love men who take the risk. They don't want a man to be corny (aka inauthentic) or disrespectful but women DO NOT want a man to play it safe. A man need to have a level of social awareness when he is talking to a woman so he can introduce flirting. When he can see the woman is involved in the conversation and is also engaged with him he can say, "You are a very attractive", "I really think you are pretty girl" and if you are really bold and confident and she is more comfortable with you and how the conversation is going you can say "You are very sexy" I'd really love to take you out sometime and continue this conversation." (Yes I have done this and and the girl had NO PROBLEM WITH IT because I kept the whole conversation with in context, I did not jump too far or not did I blurt anything random out). The advice you gave at the end of this video a man SHOULD NEVER EVER DO!!!!! Men should NEVER send a friend to tell the girl he is into that he likes her. Unless you are in another country that the culture is more reserved and not very forthcoming, The man should ALWAYS approach a woman BY HIMSELF!!!!!!! That is the confidence and risk-taking behavior WOMEN LOOOOOOOOOVVVVVVVEEE ABOUT A MAN. If you use your friend as a shield because you fear rejection, women will NEVER RESPECT THAT MAN NOR WILL GO OUT WITH HIM. This video is horrible advice for men to follow!!!! jbh (just being honest)
#1 Best pickup line: "Hi."
all steps done
it sure was helpful
I'm watching this in hopes of finding the voice of psych2go some day
Let me save anyone who reads this some time.
When you approach someone talk about the “bird” no not an actual bird but just a thing around the environment to pin a conversation on. The more natural the better. Start the conversation by making a comment on that to a person you are interested in. If they engage you are good to continue if they give a short remark with no sign of desiring a continued conversation then you are out so politely end the conversation as best you can and try your luck a different day. Don’t worry about signs and pick up lines because most of those only work when they person is already interested.
Also that “bird” could be a request. Thai works naturally because if they respond kindly you are at a minimum in neutral ground and likely in a positive ground. This is a psychological trick. Most people feel threatened if you start a conversation or offer help out of no where but if you request a favor then they suspect that’s all you are up to. It conveys trust in them, transparency and appeals to their sense of generosity and mercy which will make them more open to talking. You also have more to talk about because after they grant you your request or their help then you can say thank you. At this point they have two positive interactions you. you will also weed out the undesirable people that wouldn’t even bother to help you out.
this thumb nail is crazy
walks up too girl gets tased peper sprayed and kicked in the balls average response in 2024
Hello from jail
Haaaave you met Ted?
Shittiest tips ever
"How to build a fusion reactor in 5 easy steps"
It’s probably just my stupid bum but I got rejected imedently
Are you from Mississippi? Coz you're the only girl whose piss id sippie~
What if you are dating them how do you keep it
Tie signs but I over did it and regret it
I naturally did all of this when growing up, gotta get back to good habits
Fair enough x2
Most girls dont even give you the chance to even start talking to them because they are just too protective and scared to communicate from the start 😛 I noticed nowdays girls are afraid to go into even a small conversation… I try to be open with everyone but all I can see is defensive bubbles everywhere.
Junk advice from a woman who has no idea what flirt really is.
Proceed with caution – Nah be bold, be confident just remember to also be respectful and friendly. Many of the girls I've been with, I used cheesy pick up lines on, but kept it fun and light-hearted.
Tie-signs – Wut? This one is weird. Women use physical touch Tie-signs so you should pay attention if you notice she is making a solo effort to touch you, however if you are a male I'd suggest keeping your hands to yourself especially in this time. I don't think that study factored in low contact and high contact cultures. Making eye contact is fine though.
Call a friend – Wut??? Is this flirting or taking on a date? This is the worst one imo. Mainly because it's not effortless, isn't a flirt as it's full on telling, and is prone to problems or just not happening. It is a good idea if you still have large friend groups and you want a less forward way to ask someone on a date, just know it could also completely ruin your chances vs if you just did it yourself.
Strange video imo.
Me: doesn’t have a crush.
Still Me: Watching Video Intently
Ohhhh so flirting is like boiling a crab, got it
I farted
Fantastic video! The content is incredibly well-crafted and engaging
best flirting: “Are you from Tennessee? bc i wanna eat ur ass”
i am single