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So, I want to know what flirting means to you.
Does it mean seductively glancing over the bar whilst caressing a cocktail glass?
Does it mean subtly leaning over so that he smells your perfume?
Or does it mean asking him where the bathroom is, sheepishly turning away, and then walking off to the other side of the room and hoping he just “gets” that you like him?
I’ve noticed that when it comes to flirting: everyone has a different idea of what it is in their head. And too many people make it so complicated.
So I want to give you the 3 crucial, foolproof flirting tips that any women can use to get a guy’s attention.
If you’re out of practice, this is where to start…
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He sounds kinda like grian lmao
Nobody:
Literally nobody:
Harry potter teach me how to flirt a guy✨
3:50 i had a vastly different experience lmao
Is it just me or does he look a little bit like Patrick Dempsey…
@Matthew Hussey how can a straight woman avoid men who are not straight?
1. More eyecontact
2. Mouth the word hi
3. Text him before a date that you're looking forward to it (express excitement)
Really, these qualities I would say always scared men away for me lol. Now I'm a loner
That happened to me today! A cute guy and I passed we both mouthed HI then walked off lol. I only like to meet men in person in real life! Cause you know the energy and chemistry immediately and its SOOO much funner the swiping. The reason girls dont look too much is because we will feel eery if a guy looks at us too much so we wont do the same. You look like a cuter Patrick Demsey.
Absolutely.Authenticity seems no longer in use.It is sex straight on unfortunately,
I don't flirt cause I'm ugly and feel ridiculous flirting
It doesnt work. I am naturally exactly the way you're describing lol. And I dont even feel bad if I get rejected. Cause I just like to express myself. But it foesnt work. Usually what happens is first the guy is super flattered cause he cant believe a girl like me would make a move and it works for a little while but I think they then think they have me and they do something I dont like. And then I leave them and that's when they start really chasing cause I go from being honest and expressive and genuinely showing interest to basically friendzoning them forever and being polite but never open again. Its always the same. They see this too late!
Seems he had read Art Of Seduction
I don't wanna look at him too much tho because then it's creepy
mouth the word "hi"…meanwhile everyone (hopefully) wears masks lol
1. Look more
2. Say, Hi
3. Express excitement
I’m dying HAHAHAHAHA omg
What about the thing that guys wanna have to chase a woman?
I love how this guy comunicate hahaha
Wish guys would also follow this tips 🙂
My anxiety stops me from looking even once. But It's Def getting me no where
ThE iDeRrr oF mEeTInG SoMeOne iN pErSoN iS ScArYyy
How about older women flirting with younger men that seem interested. Same advice?? I´m too afraid to be rejected!
Alright…imma do it Matthew
Damn, the advise they give y'all is really "look at him five times" and "say hi but you don't even have to say it aloud"?
I'm a guy, After covid i find myself much less capable of talking
Guys are afraid these days to interact with girls. As a mom, I understand their frustration in this # metoo terror. Girls expect guys to make the first move and at the same time, they criminalize that. So, a guy has to take the risk of being accused of sexual harassment only if a girl does not like him. Just read the definition they give for sexual harassment: It is EVERYTHING a woman does not like. How do you beforehand? And why different people react differently to different people. And guys are shamed if they talk about this.
What if he’s your professor
Matt stop flirting with me. That little 'hi' was too much
He sent me Happy Bday wishing me to have a great day and I told him that especially now my day would be great. I think he got shy and didn't reply or he just didn't really didnt know what else to say. He doesn't seem like the texting type.
Not me taking notes
This is true
Is it okay to have a straight face when looking at a guy? Because it feels very awkward to constantly smile at him…
"COS A GAME PLAYER INVITES OTHER GAME PLAYERS TOO'
That spokes volume, Mate.
I'm gonna accept the challenge!
all im hearing is be confident
My God you are beautiful.
Thanks to your tips I talk to my wife normally! In addition, my wife bought me Spanish Fly drops as a gift and she’s surprisingly satisfied with me by 100 %! Amazingly, it worked immediately! Really big thanks to your video and this product! Otherwise, she would definitely divorce me…
what if you say 'hi' and he igored
This happened to me at the Dog park today , this super hot guy and I had chemistry , but my heart is for another hot guy. LOL….
Amazing tips, thank you!
Tell hi and tell excited to see him
"Mouth the word hi"
Face masks these days:
When I’m flirting with a man, I don’t see anyone but the man I’m flirting with. I’m literally like a horse with blinders on. I don’t even care about getting rejected. This may have to do with the fact that my profession is sales. And I’ve experienced more than enough in life that rejection isn’t the worst thing in life.
I'd never go up to a woman. She'd have to pursue me.
"playing games invites more players" exactly thats me rn
I would never talk to the guy in the supermarket video.He turns me off and if he goes out with a woman he likely only wants her to save money on a street walker.He likely has a dominant personality and any woman who dates that type of guy is putting themselves in physical danger.If you can't take one look at the guy in the supermarket scene and automatically know this about him your brain isn't sharp enough to be picking up strangers in public.Whatever you do don't get alone with strangers because they can't be trusted and they know they can get away with doing practically anything to you if there are no witnesses
Me just locking eyes with them for the whole hour and 40 minutes of my class
I will definitely make more eye contact and smile. I'm ready to embrace new love
bro in india we have stupid boys who are shy, they will think of us to be despo, tell me some gharelu nuske
I love how he's not toxic.
Well, try go'ogling Celestine Dessike's Words of Desire for one example that never fails. Even if you were able to speak halfway like a trained pro, it would make such a huge difference… as long as you're also into it lol.
Should we really take advice from a hussey? Ok joking aside he has a point. I've never said hi but I've winked because I've had a sore eye and had few men come over.
I wanna look calientw.
Please make more videos like this one
About flirting techniques
This might work for childless women…what about hot single mums? Men are scared when she has kid with her while wanting to flirt eg. while shopping….
Some girls asked the guy I like out and it was really awkward since they were a few grades older and he doesn’t even know them, so I gotta make my move soon.
Here is the issue: I don’t enjoy flirting at all. I tried it and it works. But its all an act! Its all a social game we have to play and I have to pretent to be flirty and playful wheres I am not naturally like that. I have to pretend to be some confident seductress but I am naturally chill.
My bff became my bff after i got into trouble with a math teach for reading in her class
Thanks for the tips on how to flirt.
I need help finding men attractive, how do you find someone attractive and think "I'd like to talk to that person"? To me everyone is just a scary stranger and I'm not attracted to anyone until I've known them for a while and I know they are safe to be around.
I have been rejected several times after making the first move so naturally I stopped. I think the advice is good, just let the 'mouth the word 'hi' be the farthest you go 🙂
I flirt all the time not with strangers tho just with guys I know or guys in my class or at parties I also flirt online but not online dating websites just social media. I hate how people think you’re a hoe for flirting, it’s just fun and it’s a natural part of being a human. We are social creatures and flirting is an essential part of socializing.
All of those tips are great! There's just no way I won't approach a girl I find cute if I catch her looking, or even better, we have prolonged, deliberate eye contact (which is harder to do I know, but so effective).
I think Matthew's tips here can be summarized by just showing intent. Most dudes are completely blind to subtle, shy fliration, so be even twice as obvious as you usually are and you'll get approached a ton more, I'm certain of it:)
Lots guys online don’t wanna meet they just wanna have girls to chat and text with but can’t date or have no means to date
Good tips. So just be nice then?
"Playing games, invites other game players"
Just one more time for the women at the back
"PLAYING GAMES, INVITES OTHER GAME PLAYERS"
Just the other day a 48 yr old handsome black man winked at me and I'm a 69 yr old white lady at the gas station! He told me he liked what he saw and I walked away smiling and said " Boy your a flirt and your experienced at it too!" Lol. As I pumped my gas he watched me as he was getting his gas and said " Yes I'm checking you out and I love looking at you!" He walked over and I became this nutcase nymph!!! I said " oh the fact I have no bra on get your attention baby? ( I'm usually shy!) He said first it was your dress; then your blue eyes and thirdly the no bra! Lol. I ask if he was married but ofcourse he said I'm not happy but I'm married. I told him thanks for his honesty and " ohh yes I love to be spanked in bed and called a slut but out of bed I demand respect got that? He said he's gentle then told me to meet where he does trivia at this place! I got in my car and he said " no hug?!" I said " bye. I love you. Your so cute!". I laughed later being on a high like a drug!! 21 years his senior and I have no money so that's out. Lol. It was fun to be silly
Can someone write these down?
3:55
The looking fine.. even a somewhat of a mouthing hi is fine but ladies if you already have a date please- no reason to text him and tell him you're excited. You dont need to chase him further, you're already going on the date!!!!! All you have to do on the date is smile, make eye contact and LISTEN to what he says.. ask him about himself, read how to win friends and use techniques from the book. Let him text you. Dont rob him of his masculine energy.
Mathew hussey. Help me 5000 DOLLERS. PLZ
Matt keeping my lazy ass in check since forever. Needed this, thank you love! ❤
So true, people are in love with their phones real life does not exist to them.
damn Matthew looked so cute here