The 3 examples of how to flirt with a coworker are to:
1) Create a private world between you and her.
2) Use your body language to keep the flirting discreet and professional.
3) Step up the flirting when you’re not in the workplace.
Watch the video above for examples of what to say, how to behave and how to use your body language to flirt with a woman at work and make her want you in a sexual and romantic way.
By the way…
When flirting at work, it’s often best to keep the flirting discreet and not too obvious to your fellow coworkers.
Of course, that really depends on what environment you work in (i.e. some bosses are totally fine with employees hooking up for sex or relationships, some bosses don’t allow it at all and others are okay about it, as long as the employees remain professional and continue to do their job well).
If you want to avoid getting yourself into trouble when flirting with a female coworker, then just make sure that you make her feel attracted to you first (i.e. by being confident, charming, charismatic) before you begin to subtly flirt with her via your body language. (Examples of how to do that are demonstrated in the video).
Some of the signs that a female coworker is attracted to you include: Her smiling a lot at you, touching you randomly when it’s not really necessary, being very close to you physically when talking to you, maintaining cheeky eye contact and generally showing a lot of interest in you personally.
Every woman is different though (i.e. some women are very shy and don’t show a lot of obvious interest, some women are worried about getting into trouble for flirting so they keep things professional, some women don’t care if they get themselves or you into trouble and will just do whatever they want, etc).
Note: Couples do meet at work and many end up in successful relationships or marriages, so don’t think that you’re doing a bad thing by flirting with a woman at work.
There’s no harm in flirting with a woman who is attracted to you because flirting a discreet, private interaction between you and it doesn’t have to be obvious.
Of course, women (and the few men who understand flirting) at your workplace will most-likely notice signs that your female coworker likes you, but you’re not going to get into trouble for that.
In fact, in most cases, it will simply cause the some of the other women at your workplace to begin feeling a bit more attracted to you and the guys to start respecting you more, especially if the woman who is flirting with you is pretty.
So, if you have a crush on a girl at work, don’t hesitate to initiate some flirting between you and her. If you’re worried about getting into trouble, then only start flirting with her after you have created an initial spark of attraction inside of her based on your body language, behavior, attitude and conversation style.
An example of how to quickly create a spark of attraction before flirting is demonstrated in this video, when I share the story of how my friend attracted, flirted with and then picked up a woman at work. Be sure to watch that.
By the way…
If you enjoyed this video and would like to learn more about flirting with women, attracting women and getting to sex, dates and relationships with women of your choosing, then go to:
https://www.themodernman.com/blog/the-flow-ebook.html
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Great upload
Hi Dan, my ex has been staying over, she called me last night to stay over and was hugging into me in bed, saying that she has fun when she stays with me rather than at her mum’s place, she now rings me every day. But she said she just wants to be friends last week, but we are doing couple things, holding hands, going to places together.. She said today I will find a good woman and I said well I’m a good catch, she said she’s not a good catch for anyone but I disagreed. She said are you dating and I made a joke and said I had 5 on the go, then she asked again in the morning and said you should be dating but I said haven’t had time yet. Is she testing me? Did I say the right thing? I felt a bit upset inside but didn’t show it as I want to be with her not someone else.
What should I do now to build more sexual tension? I have been making her laugh, play fighting and not asking a for a relationship, but not getting to sex.
Have bought make her love you for life now and so interesting, wish I knew all this stuff years ago, it is on my other email account as i use this account for YouTube. Thanks Dan! I promise to leave a review when I get her back, I have the ex back system too.
Hey Dan, this question has nothing to do with coworkers but with exes: you stress that a man should not waste time if he wants his ex back, but some other coaches like Corey Wayne stress that you should definitely not contact your ex first, ever. He says you should make her come to you after you've told her you can't be friends. Now why would he differ so in coaching advice I wonder, what do you think?
Hey Dan Bacon,
New subscriber, My girlfriend and I are going to a a potential breakup. We were great friends in high school but started dating during college. We have been dating for almost 4 years and currently in a long distance relationship.(Three in college) She has been thinking about breaking up a couple times with in the time we were long distance but i managed to talk it out and make her stay with me. I am about to close the distance in the long distance and she wants to break up for good. She visited me this past weekend and we had a great time, made love, kissed, cuddled,etc.She told me she loved me but she was drinking and i am not sure what that means. I am about to close the distance in the long distance and she wants to break up for good (she proposed at the end of her weekend visit). She says she does not feel the same way as she used to and sees no future with me. I currently am on a "break" with no contact and it has been one day. She still looks at my Instagram stories. I love her to death and am willing to give it my all to get her back. Please give me some advice!
Dan i have bought The Flow , it is interesting and kind of answers my question but i thought i would still put it through.. Is it possible for you to fix things when you have come across too needy and have failed to build attraction.? Also taking effort to talk would be displaying neediness but if you dont do that, nothing will happen at all. A video would be helpful to fix this dilemna.
Its just like Jim and Pam
I don't think this applies to me but does make sense. Thank you Dan Bacon great videos!
Hello Dan
It's weird seeing this analysed and broken down. I do all this naturally/subconsciously and have been massively successful with women as a result, often to the bewilderment of my male friends who thought there was some kind of secret magic at play, as I don't do the stuff they think matter (showing off wealth, giving compliments etc). You're demonstrating that I'm not that special and 'magic', it's kind of humbling but as the same time flattering as I seem to have understood all this stuff purely by instinct, as I couldn't really have explained it to my mates as well as how you're doing. Guys (and women) should be greatful to have people like you giving this advice for free.
Dan…Yesterday I went to dinner with a new girl and I let her pay the bill. Lol what are your thoughts on that? I follow your advice now, thats how I got her to have dinner with me.
Hey man, I'm literally trying to inhale all your videos haha, I just got a quick questions. What if you're a nice but confident guy? I would consider myself a bit more strict that the average joe, but I'm also quite the nice guy.
Anyway, I was too nice when she was bitchy, I'll admit that but what are you supposed to do when you went form writing hearts and saying honey to "it kinda happened all too fast, we should step down a bit" which meant like she's being cold and almost no interaction.
Also we've been dating for around 2 months and she broke up with hers a couple of weeks before we met
Dan, you’re videos are great and I realized the reason why they’re so great is because the confidence you bring in these. Confidence is key and what I lack honestly. Slowly am I building it up, but I had some trouble lately as everything seems to be falling apart right now
Hi Dan! Can you give us tips and tricks if the girl doesn't reply on text that much and not replying to you sometimes.. Its like she's not really interested on you. What do I need to do if she's not showing ANY even a little bit of interest.. But in person she's a little bit nice but just in a friendly way tho..
Dan! What to do if i see an attractive girl in public.. whom I don't know and i want to talk to her…but don't know what to talk. Pla help
Awesome
Dan it worked ! , saw this new girl at work today and went up to talk to her and it worked , we ended up having a laugh ,
it was weird because this video came to my mind while talking and i came out of my comfort zone without even realizing it
Thank you!
Spread the luuuuuuurrrrve man!
Gonna use this for a classmate I'm working on a group project with.
Hi Dan, what if my cowerker is married or in couple?
Fucken savage Dinesh
Hey Dan, you should make more videos like this. There's a cute girl that I'm really interested in at the workplace. Other coworkers have had their eyes on her
Gonna search latvian descent women lol the thing for me is that I'm inexperienced at women but I'm attracted to the 8-10 scale attractive women 🙁 am I delusional?
Thank you for this! I needed to see signs from a male’s perspectives since I’ve been talking to this guy at work. He’s really cute and I know for sure that he flirts with me 🙂
I really enjoy your vids ,cause you don't talk shit like others do !
one of your best vids Dan…its good when you give examples from your life, right way vs wrong way…good stuff
The flow book is good, read that shit worth every penny.
That cheeky, cheeky Denaesh!
It took me 3 days
I have to say that this is true I am a farely ugly dude, like from a scale of 1-10 of atractiveness I am a 4 and all of the girlfriends that I've had have been 7-8. I know, unbelievable.
What a great story haha i love it
What if your co-worker has a bf?
I work with 2 guys and my boss is female. I work in a big open plan office in a building which is one of 3. So I could talk to other girls like when I'm leaving to go for lunch or in the kitchen.
Yeah, great video. A lot of people give this advice the wrong way but I like your style.
Your video is excellent and excellently presented! How I wish there was an equivalent version for women, which is what I am after right now. I clicked out of curiosity and liked everything you said, and in particular, how you demonstrate the examples. So much clearer. Thank you!
Going to use this at work now, and see how it goes
Dinesh is the damn man!
Great job dude , really helped me
Even though I’m only 23 . I wish I met you a bit earlier.
Danesh is my idol
Danish a whole pimp out here in these streets
yo im Indian and i thought about what i would do.and when he said "an Indian guy" i was like "yea bitch.Go get it."
She had a fairly good hand full in there and had a very nice rear setup as well 😀 😀
Bro I used this word by word and its worked, scary part tho is that we hooked up and I domt know where this will.go
Have had this same situation with 2 female colleagues at work for a few years now where we have that private unspoken world between us. The thing is they're both married so I never moved in and don't plan to. Otherwise I would have on each of them a long time ago.
I think I'm in love with my coworker but she has a boyfriend. What should I do?
Dan, thx for all ,keep it up
I think my boyfriends female coworker is using all of these tricks and more on him. But he doesn’t see it because he’s so nice. Any advice?
I did the same thing, but I didn't pass one of her tests and was absent because of Corona for 2 weeks and then when I came back I lost the chance because another guy got the chance and took her out and hooked up with her and one last thing I should say is that bring her what she likes like the chocolate Dan says here
Every little tip helps cuz I'm in the same
Oh, Man. Such a great info.
Bless you.
The fudge thing for me was blue roses, creating something special early on is how you keep the connection going, learn the niche things about the person you're interested in.
Denesh is a g
boss
This was good!
Is there a possibility that a female coworker is interested in me if she asks me what I’m doing after work? (I’m interested in her) or is she just trying to have a conversation so she can get to know me better?
Not only do flirt with co worker but she is my line manager and she’s polish and we have a slight language barrier but we manage it’s really fun she caught me looking at her but and since then she wears tighter trousers and wow
I dont think I can do like how dinesh did. I probably ended up as sexual predator
Genius
She likes chocolate fudge? ….Kinky
My problem is meeting single women
Man Dinesh is a G I love his game
My guy Dinesh really is a ladies' man. Saw him in action, that Dinesh.
Dinesh the fuckin man
What do you say when they go out with you and they asked why did you ask me out?
What if we're both married?
That Private world.. that’s when you know
Denish a cool nikka